Ever feel like you don’t have much to be thankful for or that thankfulness is not flowing freely from you? Well, I decided to sit down and write out 27 ways God has blessed me (27 just seemed like a nice number).
I figured, for starters, it would shut me up and prevent me from whining or complaining, thinking that God really hasn’t done that much for me. Secondly, I would be forced to remember all that He has done, which is infinitely more than 27 things…and that alone is humbling and challenging.
So here are 27 ways God has blessed me…
1. I’m alive. Sound corny? Well, maybe, but I shouldn’t be alive. More of that in another post at another time.
2. I have babies. I was certain, because of my past life of sin, that I would never be able to have children.
3. I’m married to the perfect man…well, perfect for me. I was also certain because of my past sin that no man would ever want to marry me…at least not one as Godly and wonderful as my husband.
4. I have a restored relationship with my dad.
5. I have a restored relationship with my stepfather.
6. Somehow, despite the financial struggle to do so, I graduated from college…with very little debt.
7. My in-laws, who are not anything like “in-laws”. They are like an extra set of wonderful parents.
8. Heck, my husband’s whole family is my family. They treat me like I have always been a part of theirs.
9. I have been radically transformed from being the rude, selfish, unkind, snotty girl I once was.
10. I have this blog, which is a blessing to me each and every day. Why? Because of you. No joke.
11. Donuts exist. I consider this a blessing from God, yes.
12. Even though I lived a sexually promiscuous life previously, I was protected from STD’s and an unwanted pregnancy. I think of this fact from time to time and am still amazed at God’s hand of protection.
13. My health. I mean sure, I get migraines and have weird Fibromyalgia type symptoms, but overall I am healthy. I don’t know about you, but I so often take my health for granted.
14. Being financially able to stay home with my kids. I don’t take this for granted.
15. Having true friends, which I longed for and asked the Lord for in prayer, for many years.
16. My home, especially since lately I’ve been feeling antsy to move, and God has gently reminded me to instead look and see all that I have.
17. My mom, who worked three jobs, put herself through college, and raised me by herself, yet was somehow able to attend every parent teacher conference, every dance recital, and every other thing. Amazing.
18. My baby, Beckett. Yes, I know I already mentioned my kids, but my third child was a direct and overwhelming answer to years 0f prayer.
19. The opportunity to travel. Of course, they are so many places I’d still love to go, but the fact that I’ve been anywhere is more than most people get to experience in their lifetime.
20. The radical, life-changing, relationship-transforming moment when I repented of all the wrong things I used to think about God the Father. The moment when I asked Him to forgive me for thinking He was anything like my earthly dad, and the immediate, instantaneous, powerful change in my spirit and mind that followed.
21. The Body. I cannot imagine who I would be or where I would be, if not for the Body of saints.
22. Every email, message, or tweet from one of you, telling me that something I wrote edified you, convicted you, challenged you, or helped God speak to you.
23. Hulu. I’m just sayin’…
24. The Word and especially Phillipians 3:12, which were the first verses I memorized upon knowing Jesus and which still continue to be a major source of encouragement and help to me.
25. Grace…all of it, every drop, every bucket, every single time. I am overwhelmed and in constant awe of God’s grace.
26. God allowing me to participate in His plan, using me despite my being so undeserving, to impact His Kingdom however slight. I’m humbled that He uses me and I’m beyond thankful each time He does.
27. Jesus, continually chasing me and pursuing me, that I might know Him more, and in doing so compelling me to chase Him right back.
LarryThe Deuce said...
I have a Savior. I have a fantastic wife and great kids. I have a great job.
Nicole Cottrell said in reply to LarryThe Deuce...
Larry,
A short, but powerful list. You have much to be thankful for…
Sundi Jo said...
Thank you for this reminder. It can be so easy to focus on the things not going our way. So happy God has blessed your life.
Nicole Cottrell said in reply to Sundi Jo...
Thanks Sundi!
Victoria said...
What a great way to see all God has done for you and continues to do. My biggest blessing is that I’m alive and well, because I shouldn’t be either. So every morning I wake up is truly a blessing.
Nicole Cottrell said in reply to Victoria...
Victoria,
Amen to waking up thankful. That alone is a triumph.
Emelie (@EmelieBL) said...
I’m alive, I’m healthy, my family-members are all still alive and kicking too, even though my grandparents are ageing real fast, but in a way that is a blessing to. We’re all supposed to grow really old and then leave this earth. It’s how it’s meant to be. I have amazing friends. I have Jesus who is obviously my best friend. I have an education that I’ve worked hard for and I believe that I will be blessed with a job soon enough, I also know that one day the Lord will bless me with a husband and a family of my own. I count my future blessings too, because I know they’re coming.
jr. forasteros said...
I have a good friend in a very toxic work environment. He’s made creating a “blessings list” a spiritual practice he does every day as soon as he gets to work. He says it’s totally changed how he functions at work. He’s a much more positive, healthy and Christ-honoring force in his job now.
Thanks for this reminder :)
Nicole Cottrell said in reply to jr. forasteros...
Such a great and practical idea, especially for someone who works in a toxic environment. I could have used this idea for a few former workplaces of my own.
Chelsea (@chelsome) said...
God uses every one of your posts to speak to me. I am so thankful for you and the writing that you do.
Nicole Cottrell said in reply to Chelsea...
Hey thanks Chelsea! I’m blessed by that.
tandemingtroll said...
God took me back a second time after I walked away from Him the first time I confessed Jesus as my Savior. He has washed away all my sins.
He protected me from men I thought were “perfect” for me, who would have hurt me in so many ways when I wasn’t asking for His input. Then He spent three years healing me from past relationships and preparing me for the godly man He perfectly designed for me
He is changing me with His relentless, gentle pressure, sometimes by turning on a switch in my heart, sometimes, by making me live out situations over and over again, a la “Groundhog Day” until I get it right.
Like you, He gave me the gift of motherhood even though my past actions would have disqualified me for any. The are four perfectly wonderful kids.
He has let me continue homeschooling even though there was one year when He would have been justified to fire me. It is one of the many acts of grace He has poured into me.
He has been gracious enough to call all four of my kids to be in His family and was doubly gracious to let me witness three out of four of their moment of dedication.
This is just one of many things. Basically, though, most of the things on your list I could put on mine.
Nicole Cottrell said in reply to tandemingtroll...
Great list! I love it. Thank you for sharing.
PS I’d love to hear about the whole worst homeschooler of the year award because I was convinced that award went to me.:)
Ken Hagerman(The Barba) (@RamblingBarba) said...
Fantastic idea. I need to stop and write my own list to keep my mouth shut from complaining sometimes. You are just so practical with your posts, thanks.
I am thankful I live in a foreign country and God has used it to disturb my apathy.
Nicole Cottrell said in reply to Ken Hagerman(The Barba)...
Ken,
Ha! I take that as a great compliment. I am uber-practical, almost to a fault, but it can come in handy. If you do write a list, I hope you’ll share it!
Omonse said...
I’m thankful for the peace that comes from knowing that no matter what life looks like, God is, and will be faithful.
tammy werthem said...
I am thankful for 20 of your 27 and can so relate to you!! thanks for being thankful
Katie @ Katie Without Restrictions (@katiewithoutres) said...
I love this! Have you read the book 1,000 Gifts by Ann Voskamp? Two friends and I are working our way through it, and we’re each tracking our way to complete a list of 1,000 gifts in our everyday lives. Here’s mine so far: http://katiewithoutrestrictions.wordpress.com/1000-gifts/ It’s such an incredible, and life-changing, exercise!
Nicole Cottrell said in reply to Katie @ Katie Without Restrictions...
Katie,
I do know of Ann’s book (who doesn’t, right? She’s amazing) but I haven’t picked it up for myself yet. I love the concept, however, as I am super practical and it is such a hands on way of seeing God in your life.
Thanks for the link too!